It doesn’t take years. But you really have to ask yourself which control would you rather want to use.
This is the first game I’ve played after buying a wheel, The Crew. It’s a year ago, so I’m exactly 1 year with a wheel.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=36Dj-2e9gNE
I drove with automatic transmission and partial assists with left foot braking, yes all the telltale signs of a newb. You don’t need to do everything at once, just start easy.
I was slamming into walls, wall riding on turns, and cutting corners.
All I wanted to do was turn a steering wheel and have fun. The Crew was the perfect game to get me started, probably even more so than FH3, with it’s large map and wide open roads.
I think it was actually fortuitous that I didn’t start with something that demanded more technical skills, allowing me to accustom myself to the wheel more easily while having fun, since I’m not worrying about my skill and failing at the same time.
But then I didn’t want to waste my wheel, since these things are not exactly cheap. So I started playing Project Cars and Forza 6 Apex.
I still ran automatic transmission, but always flooring the accelerator got me nowhere, whereas it always worked in The Crew, so I started to naturally learn throttle control and gentle steering.
Started to think I was getting better. Then I tried Dirt 3, promptly uninstalled.
Then I bought FH3, and I got to go fast again like in The Crew, only difference was I was driving better after playing Project Cars and 6 Apex.
After much fun, I went into Assetto Corsa, where I really learnt a lot about the difference of driving fast powerful cars.
Then I got conceited again and tried Dirt Rally. Promptly uninstalled.
It’s all a process. If you want to get good at one game, it doesn’t take long at all. And drive at your own pace, with assists or without.
Just keep learning. Not only practicing with a wheel, I dare say every game I’ve tried taught me something different. I actually enjoy playing Dirt 4 now and have a new found liking for rally cars.