HEY EVERYONE I FOUND THE FIX FOR WINDOWS 10
Go to windows settings
Then click gaming
Then check the xbox live connection, and try clicking fix. Otherwise try these links here to walk you through it.
https://support.xbox.com/en-US/xbox-on-windows/social/server-connectivity-xbox-app-displays-blocked
https://support.xbox.com/en-US/xbox-on-windows/social/troubleshoot-party-chat