Multiplayer Problem/Cant Connect

I’ve played all the Forzas and I just got 6 and I love it so far. The only problem is sometimes the multiplayer will look for a lobby and then say “disconnected from server”. Sometimes it will work but most of the time I get that message. Usually I join a recent player to get around it, but I would like to be able to just join one randomly. Here is the thing. I am at college so I’m using LAN in my room. Any ideas? I know that this was a big problem back at launch but I wonder if anyone else has any ideas. Remember i’m at college so changing internet options is probably not an option. Thanks

It’s not your connection, it happens to most of us.
Keep trying to connect to a lobby. If it still doesn’t work, I suggest you turn off completely your xbox and login again.
I do this and it works.

there’s a pinned thread discussing similar issues here http://forums.forza.net/turn10_postst42782_SUPPORT--Multiplayer-connectivity-issues---Failed-to--messages.aspx

there might be some info that could help you there