NEED HELP! Force feedback settings for ts-xw racer

So I got a thrustmaster ts-xw racer wheel and the pedals and th8a shifter. I wanna get into drifting and road racing without the crazy loose control and can’t get it back. I know there is a learning curve but I can’t seem to get it down after a few weeks. I tried settings for other wheels but this one just seems different from every wheel and I’d really appreciate any help on decent/ great settings overall or for each type of driving! I can tune just the wheel settings I can’t get please help!